I know this is an old post but thought I'd say howdy anyway. I'm a grandmother of three. I live in Canada and I love playing Arma. I got my start in Arma 3 a little over a year ago. I played CoD since it first came out but became dissatisfied with it, since the loss of dedicated servers and the ability to create maps and mods. Then I played Battlefield for a while...but that too had the same issues. My biggest issue with both franchises... I also HATE Run and gun type play. That seems to be all it is now. I wanted a cooperative realistic type simulator. Arma is the game I've been really looking for, for years. Too bad it took me so long to find it. It certainly fills a lot of hours over the winter months. Summer it takes somewhat of a back seat to camping and fly fishing.